relationship

A relationship is a relation, a connection, between two things. The form, the shape, the characteristics, the colour, of the relationship is influenced by both.

It is easy, for most, to like sweet food. My relationship towards sugray foods is of a loving kind. It is shaped this way both because of my taste preferences and because of the thing I am tasting. If I do not like sweet, then my relationship towards sweet foods will be of another kind. The form, the colour, of a relationship seems to be unfluenced by both.

What happens if, for some reason, only bitter foods happen infront of me. I have the tendency to love sweet, not bitter. My relationship towards bitter foods is not so loving as it is to sweet. I do not like bitter at all. Still life, at times, presents bitter.

You can choose to endure and avoid the bitter, never really changing the form of the relationship into something more loving. The food has to change, the food is undesired.

Or you can choose once to change your belief about bitter into something more desired. To change your taste and in doing so adopting a new and more broad taste pallet, in doing so you will more and more appreciate and maybe even love bitter. This change also creates a contrast that intensifies/redefines the sweet even more.

Only to say that you have the capacity to love it all.